Baggage.

Gross. Even the word makes me cringe. My baggage, other peoples baggage...woof. I've come to terms with the general baggage that exists in the world, but I never thought I'd be thankful for it, until recently. I have a friend who is going through a tough break up. It happens, we've all been there. It's taking me back to a tough break up I went though, and now looking back, I can honestly say I'm so thankful for the lessons I learned. While they didn't appear to be lessons at the time, they have really taught me the value of standards. I feel I'm a stronger individual with a butt load of self respect.

No one could have taught me and it's something everyone has to experience, and although the experience sucks immensely at the time, I can confidently say that I am a better person for having gone through such an event. My heart is stronger and softer at the same time.

Not only did I find it helps with romantic relationships, but just relationships in general. When you come to terms with your baggage and just let it be what it is, you have more time to fill your life with things and people you love. I think when we accept our past we can really move forward and live a life that's sweet, honest and fulfilling, at least for me it's working. :)